An Advice to the Young Maasai Women

The Maasai are one of the culturally richest communities in the world. Their traditions and belief systems are rooted in the importance of togetherness and family values. The same is reflected in the oral tradition of the tribe, like songs or folk stories.

Monica (wearing green shuka) a Maasai woman, narrated folklore to young Maasai girls, reflecting a piece of advice that the community would give to the new brides on their marriage day. The folklore goes as-

"In the past, we as the Maasai on the issue of marriage would advise the girl who is getting married and leaving for her husband's home to not look back because if you do, you will not reach where you planned to go."

"After marriage, on the first day in your husband's home, they will show you the cows, goats, and sheep."

"After they show you these cows, it will be one of your daily responsibilities to look after them and take care of them and never go back to your family home but stay in your husband's home forever."

"That's how the Maasai story looks, that is how the Maasai used to be. On the day you will be married, this is the advice you will be provided. They will insist you love your husband and the family of your husband."

"So that is how it is, my children. When you will also get married, go and love and take care of all the members of the family you will be married to."

This belief mirrors the societal practices of the community. Traditionally, cattle rearing is one of the prime responsibilities of the women in a Maasai household. 

The community also lays importance on keeping the family values intact and looks down upon, or sometimes punishes, those who break them.

With time, however, there are some changes that can be seen in the community. Many young girls are now being encouraged to pursue education and become independent. This hope and dream resonate in many Maasai, both young and old.