8 Tips for Chinese Table Manners

The Hot Pot Feast by World Federation Of Chinese Catering IndustryWorld Federation of Chinese Catering Industry

Long known as one of the oldest civilizations and a "nation of etiquette", China has had a well-developed system of etiquette since ancient times. When visiting a Chinese household or dining in a Chinese restaurant, one will be presented with unique and interesting table decorum. 

Pleated buns (1972) by Wang ZhiqiangWorld Federation of Chinese Catering Industry

In short, Chinese table manners are centered on the concept of "respect".

Main Seat by Gabrielle Cooper-WeiszWorld Federation of Chinese Catering Industry

The seating order

There are some important table cultures before taking a seat. The table is usually round in shape because it represents 'reunion' in Chinese; The most revered diner is seated at the "seat of honor", which faces the entrance to the room. Either the host or the oldest person typically takes the seat of honor. Guests are then seated in order of status, with the highest nearest to the seat of honor. 

Dining Etiquette by Gabrielle Cooper-WeiszWorld Federation of Chinese Catering Industry

Dining

When it comes to Chinese dining, there are many interesting facts worth knowing before you dig in. 

Main Dishes by Gabrielle Cooper-WeiszWorld Federation of Chinese Catering Industry

The placement of dishes

The main course is usually placed at the center, with the rest of the dishes arranged around it. 

Beginning of Dinning by Gabrielle Cooper-WeiszWorld Federation of Chinese Catering Industry

The order of starting a meal 

It is recommended to ask the host or the oldest person to be the first to taste the dishes to show respect. 

Be Slience While Eating by Gabrielle Cooper-WeiszWorld Federation of Chinese Catering Industry

Keeping quiet when eating and before bedtime

The renowned ancient Chinese philosopher Confucius had strict views on social conduct. He stated, "One should keep quiet when eating and before bedtime." Failing to abide by these rules would be regarded as disrespectful.

From a modern point of view, speaking while eating is still inadvisable because it affects digestion and presents a choking hazard. Clearing one's mind before bedtime can also help to ensure quality sleep. To this day, parents often quote Confucius' remarks when teaching their children discipline. 

Munch by Gabrielle Cooper-WeiszWorld Federation of Chinese Catering Industry

Eating

It's important to avoid making loud chewing noises while eating. Especially making noises when eating noodles or drinking soup is considered impolite.

Shaking Legs by Gabrielle Cooper-WeiszWorld Federation of Chinese Catering Industry

Jiggling your legs while eating is not only uncouth, but also implies disrespect and negatively affects digestion. 

Serving Manner by Gabrielle Cooper-WeiszWorld Federation of Chinese Catering Industry

Food distribution

When distributing food to elders or guests, it's also a gesture of respect to use serving chopsticks or to pass dishes to them.

Post-meal Etiquette by Gabrielle Cooper-WeiszWorld Federation of Chinese Catering Industry

After dining

It's better not to pick your teeth at the table. If it is necessary, remember to cover your mouth with your hand or napkin.

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