Table For Two

Heterosexual Love and Marriage in Hindi Cinema's Golden Era

Popular Hindi cinema’s enduring love-affair with heterosexual romance has had an eventful history. This passionate preoccupation has exhibited the kind of productivity that such cinema normally likes to see in conjugal couples: it has birthed a new set of ideas about normative sexuality and romance with and for each new generation.

Film still for unknown film, Unknown, From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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Photographic lobby card for the film 'Vidyapati', Unknown, From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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Photographic lobby still for the film 'Laila', Possibly Mudnaney Film Service, From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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Lobby card produced for Hindi film, 'Aabroo', Unknown, 1968, From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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Poster produced for Hindi feature film ‘Gumnaam’, Unknown, 1965, From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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Film poster for 'Maine Pyar Kia', Unknown, From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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Performances of Heterosexual Romance: Shifts in the Ideas associated with Normative Heterosexual Romance

Consequently, depictions of heterosexual couples in popular Hindi cinema offer the opportunity to chart contemporary social and political anxieties. In the trajectories of these love stories, socio-political tensions are articulated, simplified, and often entirely resolved through a deus ex machina that most often symbolizes a collective social fantasy.

Photographic lobby still for the film 'Akeli Mat Jaiyo', Possibly Studio Brilliant, From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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In Akeli Mat Jaiyo (1963), which roughly translates to Woman, Don't Go Alone, modernity emerges as a social fantasy rather than a concrete possibility with regard to the body of the woman. The title demonstrates how, even in a postcolonial India grasping at modernity, issues of morality wound themselves around heternormative and patriarchal ideas of romance and conjugality.

Film still of actor Guru Dutt and Waheeda Rehman, from the Hindi film Chaudvi Ka Chand, Kamat Foto Flash, 1960/1960, From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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Photographic lobby still for the film 'Rangeela', Unknown, From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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Photographic lobby still for the film 'Indar Sabha', Unknown, From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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Performances of Heterosexual Romance: Conversation and Cajolery

Goal-Directed Love

Film still for 'Dahej', Unknown, From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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In the opening sequence of Dahej (1950), Chanda (Jayshree) dreams of marriage. She even playing with a set of dolls arranged to replicate a traditional Hindu wedding. 

Popular Hindi cinema has more or less consistently endorsed marriage as the inevitable culmination of heterosexual romance. But in the films of the 1950s and the 1960s, such as Shree 420 (1955) and Naya Daur (1957), marriage also appears as the mechanism through which the young couple, regardless of the many revolutionary acts they might have committed while buoyed by love, is decisively pulled back into a the framework of a feudal family.

Photographic film still for 'Shree 420', Unknown, From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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Film poster for 'Naya Daur', Unknown, From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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Popular Hindi films of this era that center on married couples tend to valorize conjugal relationships.

Photographic lobby still for the film 'Ab Dilli Dur Nahin' by UnknownMuseum of Art & Photography

In Ab Dilli Door Nahin (1957), for instance, Harilal (Motilal) is so deeply in love with his wife Bela (Sulochana) that he comes entirely unraveled when she dies.

Photographic lobby still for the film 'Karigar' by UnknownMuseum of Art & Photography

In Karigar (1958), Shankar (Ashok Kumar) and his wife Parvati (Nirupa Roy) share a loving and playful relationship of mutual respect, but Shankar is still regarded as the primary earning member of his family.

Photographic lobby still for the film 'Sahib Bibi Aur Ghulam' by Possibly Kamat Photo FlashMuseum of Art & Photography

Sahib Biwi aur Ghulam (1962) is a rare exception that touches upon the ways in which class and gender privilege sour the conjugal relationship between a nubile young woman (Meena Kumari) and her zamindar husband (Rehman) in a changing India that is attempting to shed feudalism.

Photographic lobby still for the film 'Raj Hath', Unknown, From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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A reluctant king (Sohrab Modi) consents to the marriage of his daughter (Madhubala) and the son of his sworn enemy in Raj Hath (1956). Their marriage signifies the end of a long feud between the two kings, and the start of a new monarchy. She is dressed as a bride and awaiting her wedding in the still pictured above. 

Deserving Love

While romance is legitimized through the route of marriage in most films in this era, only heterosexual love that passes the tests of social acceptability and morality culminates into conjugal bliss. The closure of marriage is normally denied to romantic couples that dare to transgress social boundaries, on indulge in behavior that could be classified as villainous or indecent.

Film poster for 'Barsaat' by Gandhi (artist- check), Globe Art Printers, Delhi (printer)Museum of Art & Photography

In Barsaat (1949), for instance, the constant and unwavering fidelity demonstrated by Pran (Raj Kapoor) and Reshma (Nargis) finds a satisfactory conclusion in marriage.   

Photographic lobby still for the film 'Barsat' featuring actress Nimmi by UnknownMuseum of Art & Photography

On the other hand, Neela (Nimmi) who falls in love with the philandering Gopal (Prem Nath) meets a tragic end- the couple is denied a happy ending despite Gopal’s delayed moral transformation.

Film poster for 'Aawara' by Globe Art Printers, Delhi (printer)Museum of Art & Photography

In Awaara (1951), Raj (Raj Kapoor), who has committed several acts of theft, is required to serve a prison sentence before he can plan a future with Rita (Nargis).   

Protagonists who attempt to woo paramours through falsehood or deception also meet tragic ends.

Photographic lobby still for the film 'Farz Aur Mohobat' / 'Nausherwan -e- Adil' by UnknownMuseum of Art & Photography

In Nausherwan-E-Adil (1957), for instance, prince Naushazad (Raj Kumar) is required to bear the consequences of misrepresenting his religion while wooing Marcia (Mala Sinha).

Thus, since it is enmeshed in discourses of worth and value, love is always found by characters that are considered “deserving” and worthy of conjugality.

Phorographic lobby card for the film 'Munimji' by Possibly M.K. GupteMuseum of Art & Photography

In Munimji (1955), Raj (Dev Anand) is raised as household help Malti’s (Nirupa Roy) poor son, while Ratan (Pran) is raised as the heir to a wealthy man.

As the result of a bargain struck before her birth, Roopa (Nalini Jaywant) is betrothed to the heir. However, since Raj, unknown to him, is the legitimate heir, it is he who serendipitously succeeds in wooing Roopa and winning her affections.   

Suffering for Love

In the films of this era, love is also seen as being purified by suffering and sacrifice.

Poster produced for Hindi feature film 'Madhumati' (1958) by Globe Art Printers, DelhiMuseum of Art & Photography

In Madhumati (1958), for instance, Anand (Dilip Kumar) sacrifices his life while attempting to reach the ephemeral and long-suffering figure of the woman he loves.

In Arzoo (1950), Kamini (Kamini Kaushal) gets married while presuming her childhood friend and lover Badal (Dilip Kumar) to be dead. Badal, who survived a lethal fire, returns to Kamini’s life with a vengeance, assuming that she has been unfaithful to their love. Kamini is torn between ideas of duty and desire, and the narrative is resolved when she is accidentally killed by a bullet shot by her husband, meant for her former lover.

Loving Religiously


Ideas of morality around love and conjugal relations were also mediated by religion, reflecting tensions between a newly formed country’s secular ideals, and its history of communal conflict.

Film still of actor Guru Dutt and Waheeda Rehman, from the Hindi film Chaudvi Ka Chand, Kamat Foto Flash, 1960/1960, From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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Film still for 'Dahej', Unknown, From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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Chavdhvin Ka Chand (1960), in tracing the love story of Aslam (Guru Dutt) and Jameela (Waheeda Rehman), maps the consequences of the purdah system on heterosexual romance. It has been regarded as a prototypical example of the "Islamicate" Hindi film. Dahej (1950) turns its lens on a Hindu marriage and unpacks the social repercussions of the dowry system on conjugal relationships. 

Arzoo, for instance, was strongly criticized by Filmindia’s Baburao Patel for making a “mess” out of the sanctity of Hindu marriage, and “distorting” its character. As Aarti Wani observes in her book Fantasy of Modernity, Patel directs his virulent moral outage at Dilip Kumar, writer Ismat Chughtai and director Shaheed Latif, and arbitrarily holds their “Muslimness” responsible for this perceived transgression.

Advertising Love

Photographic lobby card for the film 'Waris' featuring actress Suraiya, Unknown, From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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Popular Hindi films during these times were often advertised for their depictions of love. Suraiya-starrer Char Din (1949), for instance, was promoted in Filmindia as a “love story that will warm every lonely heart and thrill every happy one.”

Film still for unknown film featuring actor Raj Kapoor, Unknown, From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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However, these depictions were heavily entrenched in discourses of tradition and morality: while these filmic couples held hands, hugged, and sang to each other, they seldom engaged in displays of sexual desire on screen, in stark contrast to several Indian films produced in the 1920s and 1930s. Consequently, a film such as Raj Kapoor’s Gopinath (1948) was advertised as “not the story of lovers, but of love”.

Film poster for 'Barsaat', Gandhi (artist- check), Globe Art Printers, Delhi (printer), From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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Film poster for 'Parasmani', Unknown, From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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Film poster for 'Babul', Manohar (artist), Vishal Printers Bombay, From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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With images of couples positioned at the center, these posters telegraph the centrality of heterosexual love to the narratives of the films. 

Deferred Love

Several historians have commented on popular Hindi cinema’s self-censorship with regard to the kiss, stating that it is emblematic of the anxieties of the state and educated classes with regard to the presumed gullibility of the “uneducated masses”. Ashish Rajadhyaksha underlines that the prohibition was also meant to foster “a better cinema” that would be “worthy of incarnating the citizen as the filmgoing subject”. It was assumed that a cinema that adhered to a puritanical, statist ideology with regard to decency and morality would contribute towards the task of "refining" the sensibilities of the educated Indian audience.

Photographic lobby still for the film 'Akeli Mat Jaiyo', Possibly Studio Brilliant, From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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Film still for an unknown film, Unknown, From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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Endlessly Deferred: Inches Away From the Kiss 

Melodious Love

While the kiss between couples was deferred, the void left by the missing displays of passion was filled by the Hindi film song. Although the bodies of filmic couples were fettered by many social dictates, their voices rang with colourful and explicit metaphors.

Photographic lobby still for the film 'Baiju Bawra', Unknown, From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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Photographic lobby still for the film 'Mehlon Ke Khwab', Unknown, From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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Photographic lobby still for the film 'Shree 420', Unknown, From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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Performances of Heterosexual Romance: Song and Dance 

Songs thus prolonged and nuanced the viewing pleasure that would have otherwise been offered by the kiss, sometimes serving to add layers of meaning to the couple’s relationship, while also allowing the film to capitalize on additional avenues of profit.

Photographic lobby still for the film 'Hum Kahan Ja Rahe Hain' by Possibly Babulal JajodiaMuseum of Art & Photography

In Hum Kahan Ja Rahe Hain (1966), Meena (Neena) falls in love with Vijay (Prakash) and they sing Rafta Rafta Woh Hamare at the moment when they want to confess their feelings towards one another.

While the song refers to their growing intimacy, they remain physically distant, and the morality and decency of the characters is summarily established.

Photographic lobby still for the film 'Hum Kahan Ja Rahe Hain' by Possibly Babulal JajodiaMuseum of Art & Photography

Immediately afterward, when Meena brings him home to secure her family’s approval, her grandparents permit her to marry him.  

As their voices articulate what is forbidden to their bodies, couples in these films define their relationship while they sing together.

Photographic lobby card for the film 'Paying Guest' by UnknownMuseum of Art & Photography

In Paying Guest (1957), Ramesh (Dev Anand) and Shanti (Nutan) romance each other with the song O Nighahein Mastana. While their voices transmit the desire that they feel when they look at each other, the visuals illustrate the harmony of their bodies.

In the moment pictured here, Ramesh asks Shanti to imagine a scenario in which there would be no lights in the neighborhood, and in the cover of darkness, she could “let words of love float to her lips”.

Since they are on the rooftop of the home they share, Shanti’s friend Chanchal (Shubha Khote) hears them. To her, their crooning represents what she yearns for, but has been denied due to her choices. The intimacy implied by the song incites tremendous envy in Chanchal.

Emplaced Love

The locations and spaces in which these couples demonstrate their love for one another also underline the nature of their relationship.

Photographic lobby still for 'Baiju Bawra', Unknown, From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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Poster produced for Hindi feature film 'Shree 420', Globe Art Printers, Delhi, 1955, From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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Photographic lobby still for the film 'Baiju Bawra' by UnknownMuseum of Art & Photography

In Baiju Bawra (1952), for instance, Gauri (Meena Kumari) and Baiju (Bharat Bhushan) grow up singing of their love amidst densely wooded areas around their village. It is implied that their love is pure and untouched, tucked away from ideas of social acceptability.

Since they have been thus secluded throughout their childhood, Gauri is surprised when she discovers that her relationship with Baiju will be subjected to social censure by the villagers when she attains sexual maturity.

Photographic lobby still for 'Baiju Bawra' by UnknownMuseum of Art & Photography

Since it blossomed in the middle of nature, the relationship is seen not seen as a transgression, but as that which transcends ideas of social legitimacy.   

Photographic lobby still for the film 'Shree 420' by UnknownMuseum of Art & Photography

In Shree 420 (1955), Ranbir Raj (Raj Kapoor) and Vidya’s (Nargis) love blossoms on city streets: it does not transcend the city, but makes place for itself within that world.

Raj and Vidya, who sing of their love for one another as rain lashes the city, are buffeted by the unsteady gale of modernity until they are finally able to carve a place for themselves, their relationship and their community, within the city.    

Even as the city bequeaths them with public spaces that will forgive their displays of affection, and even facilitate them, its shifting ethical frameworks also repeatedly test the constancy and morality of their relationship.   

Teaching Love

Popular Hindi films of this era were seen as the primary source of young audiences’ notions of sexuality and love, becoming the bridges which allowed them to reconcile a traditional Indian society with the promises of modernism. Several commentators have configured cinema as the space in which young audiences dreamed of the promise of the individualism afforded by modernity.

Film poster for 'Neela Akash', Master Printers, Bombay (printer), From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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Photographic lobby card for the film 'Babul Ki Galiyan', Unknown, From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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Performances of Heterosexual Romance: Erotics and Desire, Part I

While films were cast in popular discourse as manuals on modern ideas of love and romance, stars were often seen as the instructors who could provide guidance in matters of conjugality. Wani finds that popular actors in the 1950s were inundated with questions about love and romantic relationships when they answered Stars Advise You columns in the popular film magazine Filmfare.

Photographic lobby still for the film 'Sunehre Kadam', Possibly Kala Studio, From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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Photographic lobby card for the film 'Payal ki Jhankar', Unknown, From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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Performances of Heterosexual Love: Teaching and Learning 

Stars rumored to be in relationships or affairs were seen as making for more credible couples on screen. For instance, the depictions of love between Dilip Kumar and Kamini Kaushal, and Raj Kapoor and Nargis, were perceived as inherently believable.

Photographic film still for 'Shree 420', Unknown, From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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On the other hand, films were criticized for corrupting the youth and children with indecent songs and displays of affection. In her book Outside the Lettered City, Manishita Dass quotes director K A Abbas, who in a column in Filmindia wrote that Hindi cinema had led to a “newly-awakened erotic sense” among Indian youth.

Film poster for 'Masterji', J.P. Mehta & Sons, Bombay (printer), From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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Film poster for 'Tum Haseen Mai Jawaan', Dnyansagar Litho Press, Bombay, From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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Performances of Heterosexual Romance: Erotics and Desire, Part II  

Thus, Hindi cinema of this period found itself caught between being regarded as a viable source of entertainment and escape for young audiences struggling to grasp at modernity, and being seen as responsible for the corruption and “westernization” of the Indian youth. Consequently, films produced in the 1950s and 1960s are replete with internal contradictions, espousing a half-hearted modernity even as they glorify tradition.

Film still of actor Raj Kapoor and Nargis, from the Hindi film Awara, 1951/1951, From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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This conflict looms large in the narrative of Awaara, in which Rita (Nargis) uncomfortably bears the burden of representing both, tradition and modernity, and finds herself torn in the process.

This scene is emblematic of the conflict between conservatism and modernity in which heterosexual relationships were enmeshed. 

Patriotic Love

The tensions between modern ideas of heterosexual romance and traditional constructions of authority are resolved most smoothly when love for a partner is conflated with respect and deference for the nation.

Photographic lobby still for the film 'Aas Ka Panchhi' by UnknownMuseum of Art & Photography

In Aas Ka Pannchi (1961), for instance, Neena (Vaijayantimala) and Raju’s (Rajendra Kumar) love story has to face an interruption because he joins the army. When Raju returns, he suspects Neena of infidelity, and returns to active duty. 

However, Neena proves her dedication towards him by joining an army hospital as a nurse and treating other wounded soldiers until he is ready to accept her love.   

Photographic lobby card for the film 'Kundan' by UnknownMuseum of Art & Photography

In Kundan (1955), Uma (Nimmi), who wants to marry and care for the revolutionary freedom fighter Amrit (Sunil Dutt) despite her peace-loving and morally upright grandfather Kundan’s (Sohrab Modi) refusal is seen as deserving of a happy ending.

While answering a reader’s question in a Filmindia issue in 1949, Baburao Patel comments that the moon, which figures prominently in Hindi film songs, “spoils the character” of the love of young couples by “sprinkling desire on it”.

Film poster for 'Mr. X in Bombay', Poster Center, Bombay (printer), From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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Film still for 'Bahu Begum', Unknown, From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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Film poster for 'Aadmi', Unknown, From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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Photographic lobby still for the film 'Madari', Unknown, From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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Photographic lobby still for the film 'Mehlon Ke Khwab', Unknown, From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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Photographic lobby still for the film 'Hamdard', Unknown, From the collection of: Museum of Art & Photography
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Performances of Heterosexual Romance: Distance and Proximity

As this exhibition demonstrates, the paradox inherent to popular Hindi cinema’s relationship with heterosexual love in the couple of decades after 1947 is perfectly encapsulated in Patel’s disdain for physical desire and his frustration with cinema for finding a way to allude to it, albeit tangentially.

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References:


Fantasy of Modernity: Romantic Love in Bombay Cinema of the 1950s by Aarti Wani

The' Bollywoodization 'of the Indian cinema: cultural nationalism in a global arena by Ashish Rajadhyaksha in Inter-Asia Cultural Studies, Volume 4

Outside the Lettered City: Cinema, Modernity, and the Public Sphere in Late Colonial India by Manishita Dass

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